18 Things a Scorpio man does after a break up

When it comes to breaking up with a Scorpio man, it’s not easy to know everything that could happen.

And what happens depends on the type of relationship and who asks to break up.

If a Scorpio man decided that he wanted to break up with you, it means that he has thought about it many times and there is not a lot that might happen after the relationship ends.

But if you’re the one that ended the relationship, he might be shocked and hurt and may act differently after the breakup.

Let’s look at some of the specific things he might do.

18 Things a Scorpio man might do after breaking up with you

1. He’ll act like he doesn’t care

In his attempt to not show any emotions a Scorpio man will act like he doesn’t care about you after you have broken up with him.

He’ll try to show you that he’s unaffected and that he doesn’t need you.

This is because he doesn’t want you to think that you’re hurting him, so he does this to hide his true feelings.

Deep down he’s really hurting.

2. He’ll seek friends

When you break up with a Scorpio man he’ll start reaching out to his friends.

Even ones he hasn’t spoken to in months.

This is because he’s trying to stay busy and distracted so that he doesn’t have to deal with his feelings for you.

3. He’ll stop trusting others

After a break up a Scorpio man may become heartbroken and distrustful of others and any intention of trusting another person with his heart.

He’ll probably be in a lot of pain from the relationship with you that it will take him a while to move on and trust again.

4. He’ll stop talking to you

A Scorpio man will not go back to a person who made him feel a lot of pain so he’ll probably cut off all communication with you and might not speak to you again.

This is because he might become resentful and hateful towards you for what you did to him.

Whether you ended the relationship, betrayed him, or did something else to break his heart.

5. He might stalk you

A Scorpio man might start to stalk you after the break-up.

This is because he’s curious about what you’re doing and who you’re doing it with.

He might want to know if you’re seeing someone else or what you’re up to.

This can be a bit obsessive and creepy, so if you see him following you or watching you from a distance, it’s best to just ignore him.

But if he’s not over the relationship and still has feelings for you, then he might be checking your social media.

6. He’ll give you the silent treatment

After a break-up, a Scorpio man might disengage from you and the relationship mentally and physically and begin to act as if you never existed.

For him, it’s easier to forget you than to deal with the pain he’s feeling from the relationship ending.

7. He might even disappear for a while

Scorpio men have a strong need for privacy and space, so after a break-up, he might just disappear for a while.

He’ll go off the grid and you might not hear from him or see him for weeks or even months.

This is because he needs time to grieve the loss of the relationship and he needs to be alone to do that.

8. He’ll try to make you jealous

In an attempt to make you feel the pain he’s feeling, a Scorpio man might try to make you jealous after the break-up.

He’ll do this by flirting with other people in front of you or talking about his new relationships.

He’s trying to make you feel the same pain and insecurity that he’s feeling.

9. He’ll try to make you feel guilty

Scorpio men can be master manipulators and they might try to make you feel guilty after the break-up.

He might say things like “you’re the reason this happened” or “I never should have been with you in the first place”.

He’s trying to make you feel guilty so that you’ll want to get back together with him.

But even with enough alone time to think he’ll see that this is a bad tactic.

10. He might wallow in self-pity

After a break-up, a Scorpio man might wallow in self-pity for a while.

He’ll mope around and feel sorry for himself.

This is because he’s trying to come to terms with the loss of the relationship and he needs time to grieve.

But you’ll probably never see his tears because he’ll hide and do it in a place he feels safe to be vulnerable.

11. He’ll try to understand what went wrong

After a break-up, a Scorpio man will try to understand what went wrong in the relationship.

He’ll overanalyze every little thing that happened in an attempt to figure out where things went wrong.

He’s trying to make sense of the situation and he’s also trying to figure out how to prevent it from happening again in future relationships.

12. He’ll look for a rebound

Scorpio men are known for being passionate and intense, so after a break-up, he might look for a rebound relationship.

But not because of passion and intensity, but because he thinks this is a quick way to get over his feelings for you.

He’s trying to fill the void that’s been left in his life.

But he’ll eventually realize that a rebound relationship is not what he needs and that it’s just a distraction from the pain he’s feeling.

13. He might delete all traces of you

This includes pictures, videos, and anything else that reminds him of you.

He’s trying to erase you from his life because he thinks that it’s the only way to move on.

At least in his mind, that’s how he currently feels.

You’re no longer important to him and he doesn’t want to see a picture of you next to him and be reminded of any good times because it might cause him to feel more pain and regret of losing you.

14. He’ll block your number

Some Scorpio men are known for being vengeful, so after a break-up, he might block your number.

He’s trying to cut you out of his life completely so that he doesn’t have to hear from you or see you ever again.

This is because he’s trying to protect himself from getting hurt again.

But it also helps him toughen his heart and emotional feelings towards you.

15. He’ll change his appearance

In an attempt to feel good about himself again, a Scorpio man might change his appearance after the break-up.

He’ll get a new haircut, buy new clothes, or even get in shape.

This is because he’s trying to boost his confidence and self-esteem.

He wants to feel good about himself again and he wants to attract other people.

16. He’ll start working out

He’s trying to improve his physical appearance and he’s also trying to release all the built-up anger and frustration.

He wants to feel good about himself again and he wants to be the best that he can be.

And working out might be a great distraction for him, ultimately making him feel better, but it may not be enough to distract him from the feelings he still has for you that he hasn’t dealt with.

17. He’ll try to get over you

Eventually, a Scorpio man will try to get over you and move on with his life.

He’ll do this by dating other people, spending time with friends and family, and keeping himself busy.

It might take him a while to get over you but eventually, he will.

18. He’ll move on eventually

After a break-up, a Scorpio man will eventually move on with his life.

He’ll find someone new to love and he’ll be happy again. Or he will eventually just work on all the pain and decide that he’s done for good and ready to let things go.

But he’ll probably never forget the pain that he felt when you broke up with him.

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Ignoring a Scorpio man after a break-up

A Scorpio man does not like to be ignored. When you ignore a Scorpio man he might start stalking you on social media or driving by your house or places he knows you’ll be.

This is a possibility. Not all Scorpio men are this way.

It can be difficult to ignore a Scorpio man after a break-up, especially if you were once very close to him.

But if you’re trying to move on with your life, it’s important to do what’s best for you. And that might mean ignoring him completely.

If you’re trying to move on and he’s constantly texting, calling, or emailing you, it might be best to just block his number and delete him from your social media accounts.

This way, you won’t have to see his face or hear his voice and you can focus on healing and moving on with your life.

It’s probably not going to be easy, but eventually, you’ll get there.

And when you do, you’ll be stronger and wiser for it. Just remember to take things one day at a time and be gentle with yourself.


If a Scorpio man is the one that asked you for a break-up, then he probably won’t do a lot after the relationship ends and might even decide to remain friends with you.

However, if you’re the one who unexpectedly asked him to end the relationship he may be hurt and have many regrets about losing you after the break-up.

He may become very bitter about relationships and trusting anyone else again.

A Scorpio man will go through a range of emotions after a break-up. He may be hurt, angry, confused, and even depressed.

And it may take him a while to get over you if he really loved you in the relationship.

However, he will eventually come to terms with what has happened and move on with his life.

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