15 Signs a Scorpio Woman is Testing You

When a Scorpio woman tests you it’s probably because she is looking for a challenge.

She wants to see if you are worthy of her time and attention.

In her eyes, she is probably not playing games but is testing to see if you are strong enough to handle her.

If you can’t pass her tests, she will probably move on.

But if you can pass her tests, she will be impressed and intrigued. She may even start to fall for you.

So if a Scorpio woman is testing you, it’s important to stay calm and collected.

Don’t let her see you sweat. Show her that you are confident and capable.

There are many ways a Scorpio woman might try to test you. These are some of them:

15 ways a Scorpio woman test you

1. Sense of humor test

A sense of humor is one of the most important things to have in a relationship.

It can help you bond with your partner, and it can also be a great way to relieve stress.

However, a sense of humor can also be a very personal thing, and not everyone finds the same things funny.

This is especially true when it comes to relationships. If you’re in a relationship with a Scorpio woman, there are some specific ways that she may test your sense of humor.

For example, she may tell you a joke and then gauge your reaction. If you don’t laugh, she may take it as a sign that you’re not interested in her sense of humor.

She might also be watching to see how well you are at making her laugh.

To pass this test, it’s important to be yourself, open-minded, and willing to laugh at yourself.

It’s also important to be able to take a joke, even if it’s at your expense. If you can do these things, then you’re likely to pass this test.

2. Jealousy test

I don’t know many people who love having a jealous partner and it makes sense because jealousy can be damaging to relationships.

A Scorpio woman might test you to see how jealous you are so that she understands what to expect in a relationship with you.

For example, she might flirt with other men in front of you or talk about ex-partners.

She’s not necessarily doing this to make you jealous but rather to see how you react.

If you get angry or start a fight, then she knows that jealousy is something you’re going to have to work on.

To pass this test, it’s important to stay calm and collected.

Try not to let her see you getting jealous. Show her that you trust her and that you’re not the jealous type.

And be willing to work on yourself if overcoming jealousy is something you need help with.

3. How easy are you

Trying too hard doesn’t always get the girl and even when you do all the favors for her that doesn’t mean she’ll immediately be head over heels for you.

That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try or that you should become mean. It means that you should let her express herself and try to help without being overbearing.

A Scorpio woman might test you to see how easy you are so that she knows what kind of person she’s dealing with.

For example, she might ask you to do something for her and then see how you react.

If you do it without question or hesitation, then she knows that you’re the type of person who is willing to do anything for her.

But if you hesitate or say no, then she knows that you’re not the type of person who is going to be at her beck and call.

To pass this test, it’s important to be assertive and confident in who you are.

Don’t let her see you sweat. Show her that you’re the type of person who is willing to do whatever it takes but that you’re not afraid to ask for respect when it’s necessary.

4. Playing hard to get

She’s probably thinking I like him but if I play hard to get will he come after me?

For example, she might act disinterested in you or she might not return your calls or texts right away.

She’s not necessarily trying to be rude, she’s just trying to see how you react.

A Scorpio woman will most often do this so that she can understand how you feel about her and if it’s safe to open up her heart to you.

To pass this test, you should try and be patient and show her that you’re interested in getting to know her better, even if it takes some time.

Scorpio women are often attracted to men who are confident and not afraid to take a bit of risk.

Try and be yourself around her, don’t be afraid to show her your feelings, and try to make things comfortable for her to open up to you.

5. Asking about past ex-girlfriends

It’s possible that she wants to see how you will talk about other women you’ve been with before to get an idea of the type of man you are.

She might be fishing for information about whether you’re the type to gossip or badmouth other women.

If she asks about your past girlfriends, try and answer honestly without being too negative.

It’s also a good idea to ask her about her past relationships as well in a non-judgmental, non-serious way.

Keeps the conversation flowing and shows that you’re interested in learning about her too.

6. She introduces you to friends and family

Being introduced to her family and friends says many things about where you both are in the relationship.

But most of all it shows that she’s probably very interested and serious about you if she’s comfortable enough to introduce you to the people who are most important to her.

This is a good sign and it means that she trusts you enough to let her guard down around you.

But it might also mean that she’s trying to see if the people she cares about approve of the relationship.

Don’t take this for granted, it’s a big deal for a Scorpio woman to let you into her inner circle.

7. She shares details to see if you remember

A Scorpio woman will often share personal details with you to see if you’re paying attention.

She wants to know that you care about her, that you’re interested in hearing about her life, and want to get to know her on a deeper level.

Remembering the little things will score you major points with a Scorpio woman.

So, if she tells you about her favorite color or food, make sure to remember it and bring it up later.

It’ll show her that you care and are listening to what she has to say.

8. She cancels a date at the last minute

Sometimes plans don’t work out the way we intended them to.

But if a Scorpio woman cancels a date with you at the last minute, it might mean that she’s trying to see how you’ll react.

She might want to know if you’re the type of person who gets angry or upset easily, or if you’re more understanding and patient.

The best way to react in this situation is to stay calm and try to reschedule the date for another time.

Don’t let her see that you’re bothered or upset, it’ll probably push her away.

At the end of the day, it may not have been a test and was probably an actual emergency.

9. She test to see if you have a passion for growth in life

A Scorpio woman wants to know that you’re ambitious and have a passion for growth in life.

She doesn’t just want to be with someone who is content with where they are in life and isn’t looking to improve themselves.

She might ask questions to test your ambitions and to get an idea about your potential in the relationship.

To pass this test, try and share your goals and aspirations with her, and explain how you plan on achieving them.

Show her that you have a clear passion for growth and development, both in yourself and in the relationship.

10. She wants to know if you are a loner or a social butterfly

Keeping her secrets to herself and being loyal to people in her circle is important to a Scorpio woman.

She won’t feel well knowing that you’re very social or into gossiping, and she’ll want to know if you can be trusted to keep her secrets.

This test is usually passed by simply being honest with her and assuring her that you’re the type of person who can be trusted.

But if you are a social butterfly, try and limit the amount of people you talk to about your relationship.

Know when to share and what to share with others as well.

It’ll show her that you can be trusted and that she doesn’t have to worry about you blabbing her secrets to everyone.

11. She tests your patience

A Scorpio woman wants to know that you’re a patient person, and she’ll often test your patience to see if you have the ability to handle her sometimes moody and difficult personality.

She might test your patience by cancelIng plans, being late, or changing her mind last minute.

It’s important to stay calm and patient during these times, and not take everything so personally or become bothered or upset.

It’ll show her that you’re the type of person who can handle anything and that she can rely on you.

12. Your level of intelligence

Having conversations with someone who doesn’t add much input can be painful for a Scorpio woman.

She wants to be with someone who is intelligent and can keep up with her intellectually.

So, she might test your intelligence by asking you open questions or talking about opinions on different topics.

If you want to pass this test, it’s important, to be honest with her and not be afraid to share your thoughts and opinions.

Avoid giving one-word answers or changing the topic, as it’ll only make you look uninterested or unintelligent.

Just be yourself, put your own twist on things and enjoy their company.

13. How well do you think on your feet

A Scorpio woman likes a man who is quick-witted and can think on his feet.

She’ll often test your ability to think on your feet by putting you in unexpected situations or asking you difficult questions.

She might ask some questions like “what would you do if I didn’t show up for our date?” or “what are your thoughts on XYZ?” or “what would you do in X situation?” or something else to catch you off guard.

To pass this test, try and stay calm and think of a thoughtful answer that shows her that you can think under pressure and can handle anything that comes your way.

14. Your emotional stability

Emotional stability is the ability to stay level-headed and in control of your emotions, even during difficult or challenging situations.

A Scorpio woman wants to know that you’re emotionally stable and that you won’t crumble under pressure or during unexpected situations.

She’ll test your emotional stability by putting you in difficult situations or by making you feel uncomfortable on purpose.

This might become more tested when you’re around her family and friends.

Try to stay calm and collected during these times, and not let your emotions get the best of you.

If you can show her that you’re emotionally stable, it’ll probably make her trust and respect you more.

15. Your ability to keep her secrets

She might tell you something that is not so important to her just to see if you’ll tell someone else or use it against her in an argument.

Scorpio women are very secretive and private people, so it’s important that you can be trusted to keep her secrets.

To pass this test, you need to be honest with her and assure her that you’re the type of person who can be trusted, even when you’re not on good terms.

It’s also important to know when to keep your mouth shut, even if she’s being difficult or moody.

There will probably be times with her when it’s better not to say anything at all.

Communicate, communicate, communicate so you can get to understand her more.


When a Scorpio woman begins to test you, it can be seen as a way of her trying to gauge your level of interest and commitment to her.

If you’re not ready for a serious relationship, then it’s best to steer clear of a Scorpio woman.

But if you think you can handle her intensity, then go ahead and see where things might lead.

Just be prepared for her to keep testing you along the way.

And if things look like they’re becoming unhealthy start talking to her about how that type of behavior is damaging to the relationship and how both of you can deal with this in the relationship.

Communication and giving the benefit of the doubt are two of the most important things in a relationship with a Scorpio woman.

If you’re both willing to put in the work, you can probably overcome anything that comes your way and if you truly want to get an advantage over her and make the relationship work, talk live with an astrologer.

Let them know what’s going on in your relationship right now and ask questions so that they can give you advice about how to improve the relationship with her.

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