27 Ways to know when a Scorpio man is done with you

There’s something about a Scorpio man that makes you feel like he’s the only one for you.

He seems so confident, so sure of himself, and you can’t help but be drawn in.

But what happens when that magnetic pull starts to fade?

When the shine of new love wears off and you’re left with a partner who is no longer interested?

If you’re unlucky enough to be faced with a Scorpio man who is done with you, brace yourself for the fight of your life.

We all know the Scorpio man can be a bit of an enigma, but when he’s done with you, it’s pretty clear.

He’ll let you know in no uncertain terms that he’s had enough and it’s time to move on.

You might not see it coming, but when it does, you’ll know. So what are the signs that a Scorpio man is done with you?

Let’s take a look.

27 Signs a Scorpio man is done with you

1. Power struggles

Power struggles are always a big no-no with Scorpios.

If you’re constantly finding yourself in head-butting matches with your Scorpio man, it could be a sign that he’s ready to move on.

Scorpios love peace and harmony in their lives, and constant bickering will only push them away.

If your relationship is based on power struggles, it’s doomed to fail.

2. Having trust issues

If he’s stopped trusting you and won’t tell you what’s going on, it’s a sign that he’s done.

Scorpio men are very private and often won’t tell you what’s wrong, but if he’s stopped trusting you it could be a sign that he might not want to be with you anymore.

3. Arguing a lot

If you and your Scorpio man are always arguing, it could be a sign that he’s ready to move on.

Scorpios don’t like drama and fighting, so if he’s doing it, it means he’s annoyed, something is wrong, or ready to end things.

4. You cheated on him

Some Scorpio men have big egos and they hold grudges sometimes.

If you cheated on him, that is definitely a deal-breaker.

He probably will never be able to forget or forgive something like that.

He may act like he’s over it and is willing to move on, but in his mind, he will always remember what you did.

And he may never forgive you.

5. Being too dependent

If you are always asking him for help or favors, he will eventually get tired of it.

Scorpios like to feel needed, but not smothered.

If you are always relying on him, he will eventually pull away.

6. You’re being over-critical

A Scorpio man can be very critical and he expects the same from his partner.

If you’re constantly being nit-picky and finding fault in everything he does, he may eventually grow tired of it and move on.

Additionally, if he is constantly being over-critical of you it might be a sign that he is done with you.

7. Your sensual life is bad

If you used to be the someone he really liked but now all of a sudden your sensual life is nonexistent, that could be a sign he’s done with you.

A Scorpio man loves being physical and he loves being close to his partner, so if he’s no longer interested in either of those things, it might be a sign that he is planning to leave.

8. He’s giving you silent treatment

If your Scorpio man is giving you the silent treatment, it’s a sign that he’s done with you.

He’s not going to communicate with you in any way, and he’ll avoid being around you.

If your Scorpio man pulls away and stops communicating with you, it could be a sign that he’s done with the relationship.

9. He starts lying to you

A Scorpio man doesn’t like to be lied to but if he’s done with you, he’ll start lying to you.

He’ll start making excuses for why he can’t see you or talk to you anymore.

10. He starts making excuses

If a Scorpio man is trying to find a way to end things with you, he’ll start making excuses.

He may say that he’s too busy or that he’s just not feeling it anymore.

Whatever the excuse may be, it can be a sign that he’s looking for a way out.

11. He stops flirting with you

Scorpio men love flirting and being playful so if he suddenly stops, it could be a sign that he is no longer interested in you.

12. He becomes disrespectful

If he starts to talk down to you or act like he is better than you, it could be a sign that he is done with the relationship.

Scorpios are very proud people and they will not put up with being disrespected.

But neither should you, set your boundaries, stand up for what you deserve and communicate to set things straight.

13. He’s not interested in your life

If a Scorpio man is done with you, he’s not going to be interested in your life.

He won’t ask about your day or what you’ve been up to.

He won’t be interested in your stories or your updates.

14. Your conversations are short and dull

This is one of the clearest signs that a Scorpio man might be done with you.

If he’s no longer interested in talking to you, it’s a sign that he’s probably ready to end things.

Relationships cannot survive on short and dull conversations.

If he’s not interested in talking to you, it’s probably because he doesn’t want anything to do with you anymore.

15. You don’t have anything in common anymore

A Scorpio man will usually end a relationship when he feels like he has nothing in common with his partner.

If you’ve been feeling like your conversations with him have been growing shorter and less interesting, it might be a sign that he’s ready to move on.

16. He starts making decisions without consulting you

If he’s always been a bit of a control freak, this will only get worse when he’s done with you.

He’ll start making decisions without even consulting you, and he’ll become more dismissive of your opinions.

He’ll withdraw from conversations and stop sharing important aspects of his life with you.

Basically, he’ll start acting like you’re no longer a part of his life at all.

17. You feel like he’s a stranger

One of the first signs that a Scorpio man might be done with you is when he suddenly becomes a stranger.

He’ll stop making an effort to talk to you, he’ll stop texting or calling you, and he’ll generally just act like you don’t exist.

18. He puts his own needs above yours

If a Scorpio man is done with you, he will put his own needs above yours.

He won’t be interested in your feelings or in what you have to say.

He will only be concerned with his own well-being.

19. He’s always busy and doesn’t have time for you

If he was into you, he would make time.

When a Scorpio man wants a relationship to work he will always find a way to make time, even if it’s short.

If he’s always too busy for you, it’s a sign that he’s not interested anymore.

20. He starts spending more time with other people

A Scorpio man generally spends time with people who he finds interesting.

If he starts spending more time with other people, it could be a sign that he is no longer interested in you.

21. You feel like you’re on a roller coaster ride with him.

He is always up and down with his emotions and you never know which one you’re going to get.

This can be really exciting and fun when he’s in a good mood, but it can also be really frustrating when he’s in a bad mood.

22. You can never really please him

No matter what you do, it seems like you can never make him happy.

He always has some complaint or criticism and you never feel like you’re good enough.

And it feels like you’re always walking on eggshells when he’s around.

And he seems like he is no longer interested in making things work, and he’s ready to move on

23. You feel like you’re being controlled

A Scorpio man will often start to control his partner when he’s feeling like things are no longer working.

He’ll start to micromanage your life and he’ll be more dismissive of your opinions.

24. He stops being emotionally available

If a Scorpio man pulls away from you emotionally, it often could be a sign that he’s no longer interested in you.

He may not be as attentive or as loving as he once was, and he may start to act like he’s just not that into you anymore.

25. He becomes less physically affectionate

If a Scorpio man is no longer interested in you, he might also be less physically affectionate.

He may not want to touch you or be near you, and he may start to avoid physical contact altogether.

And Scorpio men or very touchy when they like someone.

26. He threatens to leave you

If a Scorpio man is threatening to leave you, it’s a pretty good indication that he’s had enough.

If he’s made it clear that he’s not happy in the relationship and is considering walking away, it’s time to listen.

If he’s already made moves to end things, it’s probably in your best interest to just let him go.

27. He actually leaves you

This is probably the most obvious sign that a Scorpio man is done with you.

If he’s not making any effort to contact you and he’s not even trying to stay in touch, then it’s safe to say that he’s already moved on.


A Scorpio man can show all or most of these signs and is not planning to end a relationship with you.

The best way to find out and confirm your suspicion is to sit down and have a conversation with him.

Talk about the goals and expectations for the relationship.

Challenge him to open up, and communicate with you so that you can both be on the same page.

In reality, he should just communicate but sometimes it’s just not that easy for a Scorpio man, whatever the reason may be.

Sometimes it’s hard for a Scorpio man to express himself in a way that doesn’t involve conflict.

If you’re not used to this way of communicating, it can be easy to misinterpret his actions as a sign that he’s done with you.

Most Scorpio men are able to see their shortcomings, with communication.

Which causes them to open up and change for the better.

Be patient, communicate and challenge him, to be honest with you in the same way he wants you to be honest with him.

A Scorpio man may or may not be done with you in a relationship but communicating is the best way to know for sure.

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