15 Ways you can keep a Scorpio man happy in bed

When it comes to pleasuring a Scorpio man in bed, it’s all about the buildup.

There are many things that you can do that will keep him happy and create unforgettable moments between both of you.

Some might push your limits and others you might already be comfortable with.

That aside let’s look at some of them;

15 Ways to keep a Scorpio man happy in bed

1. Ask him what he likes

He’ll be more than happy to tell you, and this will help you ensure that both of you are always enjoying yourselves.

This will also give you a chance to get an idea of his sexual preferences and help you to better please him in bed.

Additionally, it’s important to be open and honest with your Scorpio man about your own desires. He’ll appreciate your honesty and will be more than happy to return the favor. 

2. Do more of what he likes

He can be passionate and intense in the bedroom, he craves a partner who is equally as enthusiastic about sex as he is.

Fortunately, there are plenty of ways to turn up the heat and keep your Scorpio man happy.

From trying new positions to experimenting with different types of stimulation, there’s no shortage of options when it comes to exploring your sexuality.

So go ahead and let your freak flag fly – your Scorpio man will thank you for it.

3. Be open to trying new positions

When it comes to sex, Scorpio men like to keep things interesting.

They enjoy trying new positions and experimenting with different ways of achieving pleasure.

So, if you’re looking to keep your Scorpio man happy in bed, be open to trying new things.

Talk to him about your desires and fantasies, and be willing to experiment.

You may be surprised at how much fun you have in the bedroom when you let yourself go and explore your sexual boundaries.

Who knows, you may even discover a few new favorite positions along the way.

4. Role-play – dress up and play a character

Role-playing is a great way to keep a Scorpio man happy in bed.

You can dress up as his favorite fantasy woman and play the role of a seductive siren.

Or you can be the naughty nurse who takes care of his every need.

He might also love it if you play a character from one of his favorite movies or TV shows.

Get creative and have fun, you got this!

Role-playing is a great way to keep the spark alive in your relationship and keep your Scorpio man happy in bed.

5. Wear sexy lingerie to bed

If you want to keep your Scorpio man happy in bed, get yourself some sexy lingerie.

He loves seeing you in lingerie and it will turn him on and get him intrigued.

Make sure to choose lingerie that makes you feel comfortable and confident.

Also, don’t be afraid to experiment with different types of lingerie.

Scorpio men have a kinky side that isn’t seen by most.

But they love when their partners are open to trying new things in bed and when you do you’ll see other sides of him.

Go ahead and surprise him with some new lingerie every now and then. He’ll definitely appreciate it!

6. Unlock his freaky side

To keep a Scorpio man in bed be prepared to unleash his hidden, freaky side.

Blindfolds and restraints are a great way to do this.

Tying his hands to the bed or something else will allow him to let go and completely surrender to you.

And not being able to see will heighten all his other senses, making the experience even more intense for him.

Of course, you’ll need to make sure that he trusts you completely before trying anything like this.

But once you have that trust, you’ll be able to take your sexual relationship to a whole new level.

7. Take control during sex

The Scorpio man likes to be in control but in the bedroom, he likes when his partner takes control.

He likes to feel wanted and desired, and he likes to be seduced.

He can be very sexual, and he likes a woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to take charge.

He’s also very passionate, so you’ll need to be prepared for some intense encounters.

If you can keep him guessing and keep the passion alive, he’ll be happy in bed.

Just make sure you’re ready for anything because a Scorpio man always brings the heat.

Ok, maybe I hyped him up a little bit here but you get the point.

8. Tease and challenge him

There is a lot of value in teasing a Scorpio man and he loves a good game.

You need to be prepared to tease and challenge him if you want to keep him in bed.

Let him know that tonight he needs to try and keep up with you. Say things like “Are you ready for a wild night?”

He’ll love the challenge and it will get his gears going.

Just be warned, he’ll be coming in all worked up and with expectations so you really have to be about what you say.

Turn it up a notch or two and let yourself go wild with him.

Don’t be afraid to push his buttons. He likes it when you’re a little bit naughty.

Who knows, maybe tonight you’ll finally be able to tame the beast.

9. Touch yourself in front of him

Get comfortable with touching yourself in front of him.

Scorpio men are known for their strong sexual appetites, and they’re not shy about what turns them on.

So don’t be shy about showing yourself some love in front of your man.

He’ll be turned on by your confidence, and it’s likely that he has fantasized about seeing you pleasure yourself.

Go ahead, really get into it, and give him a show he won’t forget.

10. Give him surprising blowjobs

A lot of people probably think that to keep a Scorpio man happy in bed, you have to be constantly giving him blowjobs.

But the truth is, if you’re always giving him blowjobs, he’s probably going to get bored pretty quickly.

Instead, you should mix things up and surprise him with blowjobs when he least expects it.

For example, don’t plan to give him a blowjob every time you have sex.

Wait until he’s really getting into it and then give him a mind-blowing blowjob that he won’t see coming.

Trust me, he’ll be much happier in the long run if you keep things exciting and unpredictable in the bedroom.

Now, if he’s the type of guy that wants it every time you have sex, negotiate with him, in a playful and teasing way.

You can say something like you’ve been naughty and tonight you’ll be awarded different presents. Something like that or get more creative.

Be a little bossy, in a challenging and very playful way. It has to sound playful or it won’t work.

Find a way to work around not doing it all the time, so he’s always desiring it.

And in the meantime switch it up with something else that is just as pleasing for him.

11. Be vocal with him and talk dirty

If you want to keep your Scorpio man happy in bed, you should try being vocal with him and talking dirty.

Whisper in his ear what you want him to do to you, and let him know when he’s doing it right by moaning and saying things like “mmmm” and “harder, please.”

Let him know that you want it all – every bit of his passion and intensity.

By doing this, you’ll keep your Scorpio man happy, satisfied, feeling desired…and coming back for more.

12. Do it in different places

Anyone who has ever been in a long-term relationship knows that having sex in the same place can become boring after a while.

To keep a Scorpio man happy in bed, mix things up and do it in different places.

Try doing it in the kitchen, even in the car, or anywhere different.

Think outside the box, get creative, and experiment with different locations and positions.

As long as you keep things fresh and exciting, your Scorpio man will be happy.

Who knows, you might even find that having sex in different places is more fun than doing it in bed!

13. Let him dominate you

He loves to feel in control and will be happy to show you what he can do if you give him the green light.

Let him blindfold you, bind your hands, or whatever else you/he’s into.

You can say something like “ok tonight I’m giving you complete control to do whatever” or “surprise me but I promise you’ll be the one to tap out”

Or “even with my blindfolds on I can still take you down”

I don’t know why I’m making this sound so competitive but I’m building on the fact that he likes challenges.

It’s like building the anticipation and his imagination runs wild.

Really get into it with him, you might find that you enjoy it as much or maybe more than he does.

14. Use a sex toy

Do you have a sex toy you’ve been hiding from him?

Now is the best time to bring this out. Sex toys can be a great way to enhance your sexual experience with a Scorpio man.

You can play a game with him, letting him control the intensity, using it to massage/stimulate areas of your body, and more.

Have a conversation with him first to find out how he feels about sex toys though before introducing them to him.

Just to be safe.

15. Do it with the lights on

Try doing it with the lights on and take the chance to really explore each others’ body movements.

This is your chance to really work it and let the Scorpio man know that you’re extremely confident with what you’ve got and what you can do.

And you don’t have any problem if/when it’s your turn to put on a show.

Use your imagination here.


Scorpio men crave physical and emotional intimacy, and they’re not afraid to go deep.

When it comes to sex, they’re looking for a true connection.

So, the best way to keep a Scorpio man happy in bed is to be completely present with him.

Make eye contact, touch him lovingly, and let yourself get lost in the moment with him.

foreplay is also essential for getting them in the mood, so take your time and enjoy exploring their body.

And try to build anticipation before you get down to action, this will help a lot.

Once they’re turned on, they’ll be ready to put all of their focus on pleasuring you.

Be sure to communicate with them during sex – let them know what you like and how you want to be touched.

Scorpio men love to please their partners, so if you let them know what gets you going, they’ll be more than happy to oblige.

And when it comes time for them to reach their climax, don’t be afraid to let them take charge.

Keep things interesting outside of the bedroom as well and be unpredictable sometimes with how and where you do it.

A little bit of mystery can also go a long way with a Scorpio man – tease him, keep him guessing and he’ll be eager to get you back into bed.

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