When a Scorpio man wants you back he probably won’t tell you straight up.
You may have really broken his heart by leaving him and even if he feels really hurt about everything, he probably still wouldn’t admit that he wants you back.
He has a big ego and may not want to be vulnerable with you, because he thinks this might make him look weak and he hates this because he likes to be in control.
So he thinks if he opens up to you about his feelings and is vulnerable that he is being weak, and giving you control.
If he won’t open up to you and tell you that he wants you back, how can you know?
Look for some of these signs:
15 Things a Scorpio man does when he wants you back
1. He still calls and texts you
Even if he is angry with you and hurt, a Scorpio man may still text or call you if he can’t completely let go of you.
This could mean that he wants to get back together, and it does show that you are still on his mind.
He’s calling because he wants to hear your voice.
2. He’s always showing up in places where you’ll be
Do you notice that he’s always turning up at the same places as you?
Whether it’s a bar you always go to or a coffee shop that you visit frequently.
This is because he’s hoping to bump into you and maybe even strike up a conversation.
It could be that he wants to get back together with you, or at least have the opportunity to talk to you and see how you’re doing.
3. He asks your friends about you
If the Scorpio man is trying to get back together with you, he may ask your friends about you.
He might want to know what you’re up to and if you’re seeing anyone.
He may also try to find out if you’re still interested in him.
If you are, then he’ll probably make his move.
4. He contacts you after long breaks to find out how you’re doing
Do you notice that your Scorpio man contacts you more often after weeks or months out of nowhere?
He does this because he’s trying to find out how you’re doing and he’s thinking about you.
It could be that he wants to get back together with you, but he’s not sure if you want the same thing.
He doesn’t want to make a move until he’s sure that you’re interested in giving the relationship another shot.
5. He’s awkward with you when you meet in person
Sometimes the people that like you are awkward around you, and the same could be said for him.
He might not know what to say or how to act around you. This is because he’s nervous about screwing up and making things worse.
He doesn’t want to say the wrong thing and push you away.
He’s hoping that you’ll give him another chance and he doesn’t want to ruin it.
6. He didn’t want to break up with you
When someone is not ready and willing to leave a relationship it can usually take them longer to get over a break-up.
This is because they still have feelings for you.
It’s possible that your Scorpio man never really wanted to break up with you in the first place.
And if he never wanted to end the relationship then this is another reason why he might want to get back with you.
7. He still stays in touch with your family
Even after the relationship ends, a Scorpio man might still stay in touch with your family.
This is because he probably wants to keep tabs on you and see how you’re doing.
And maybe he loved your family dynamic and is hoping to stay close with them, and probably you, again.
It’s also possible that he’s hoping to get back together with you, and he knows that the best way to do that is through your family.
8. He remembers things you’ve told him
If a Scorpio man thinks that you are sentimental about a special day that you told him about, he will remember it.
And he will try to make it special for you even if you’re not together anymore.
This is because he wants to show you that he cares and that he remembers the things that are important to you.
It’s a way of showing you that he still has feelings for you and that he wants to make things right between you.
9. He compliments you often
If a Scorpio man is hoping to get back to you he might start complimenting you more often.
This is because he wants to make you feel good and he’s hoping that it will make you want to be around him more.
It’s also a way of him showing you that he still notices the things that you do well and that he appreciates you.
10. He’s trying to make you jealous
Sometimes the way to get someone to take action is to poke them.
And maybe he’s thinking if he can make you a little jealous then you’ll realize that you have feelings for him and take him back.
He might start dating other people or he might start flirting with you more.
Either way, he’s trying to get a reaction out of you so that you’ll want him back.
11. He sends you random gifts
A Scorpio man will often send you random gifts in an attempt to win you back. These could be anything from flowers to jewelry to chocolate.
He wants to show you that he’s thinking of you and that he’s willing to do whatever it takes to make things right between you.
12. He wants to spend time with you
When a Scorpio man wants you back he’ll start spending more time with you.
He might even ask you out on a date or two. He’s trying to show you that he still cares about you and wants to be in your life.
13. He talks about the great times you had together
I have heard many people say that old fire sticks are easy to catch fire.
However, you read into that is fine.
But if you notice that your Scorpio man is always talking about memories of things you did together and places you’ve been, it’s a sign that he wants you back.
It means that he’s thinking a lot about everything that happened in the relationship and he’s not ready to move on yet.
14. He tells you that he regrets how things turned out
Maybe now that you’re gone he’s realizing what he had.
It’s possible that he regrets how things ended between the two of you and he wants to try again.
If your Scorpio man tells you that he regrets what happened, it’s a strong sign that he wants to get back together.
15. He’s trying to make things right between you two
If a Scorpio man has done something to hurt you he’ll try to apologize for it.
He knows that he needs to take responsibility for his actions and he wants to make things right.
He’s trying to do whatever it takes to earn your forgiveness and get back in your good graces.
Summary
A Scorpio man might want you back and won’t tell you because of his ego and fear of you hurting him.
If you want to help a Scorpio man open up about his feelings and be more vulnerable with you, you need to be understanding and supportive.
But this doesn’t mean that you should enable him in any toxic behaviors that he has.
Scorpios are very passionate people, but they can also be very guarded. They need to know that they can trust you before they’ll let themselves be vulnerable.
Be patient with your Scorpio man and let him know that you’re there for him no matter what.
If he feels safe with you, he’ll eventually open up and let you in.
Avoid being defensive in your conversations when you communicate and give him the ability to speak while you listen.
And ask him to do the same for you.
Many times the reason why Scorpio men shut down is because they don’t have enough trust in their partners.
They don’t know what your intentions are and they’re afraid of getting hurt so they think that if they bury their feelings they’ll be safe.
If you find out that many of the signs are true for you and your Scorpio man, and you think there is hope for your relationship, give it another shot.
But don’t be afraid to get some counseling because that could give both of you better tools and ways to help each other grow in the relationship.
There’s no shame in getting help if you need it and it might be the best decision you could make for your life.
Sometimes two people can be best friends but bad lovers.
If that’s the case here try to have a peaceful relationship with the Scorpio man if you can and look for a more loving and compatible partner elsewhere.
