15 Ways you can hurt a Scorpio man emotionally

If you want to intentionally hurt a Scorpio man, you have to do it without letting him realize that you’re doing it on purpose.

Hurting a Scorpio man emotionally is not an easy task and that’s because he probably won’t let you see that he’s hurt.

Though he may seem tough and emotionless on the outside, a Scorpio man is actually very sensitive.

He feels deeply and passionately about everything in their lives, including the people he cares about.

If you want to hurt a Scorpio man emotionally, you need to be prepared to go for the jugular.

This means digging up his deepest fears and insecurities and throwing them in his face.

It won’t be easy, but it will definitely get the job done if you can do it.

Just be warned: hurting a Scorpio man emotionally will likely result in some serious revenge and you’ll probably lose his friendship forever.

I really want you to take this in cause the things I’ll mention below can really hurt him.

Please don’t use these if you want him to care and start to love you.

If you say any of these to a Scorpio man consistently you’ll eventually damage the relationship you have with him.

Tread carefully.

15 ways to hurt a Scorpio man’s emotions

1. Criticize him

Pointing out a perceived flaw or making snarky comments about his choices, and shortcomings.

And making a Scorpio man feel like he’s never good enough is an effective way to hurt him emotionally.

Your words will sting and this will really get under his skin and cause him a lot of emotional pain.

And, since he can be stubborn and brooding, he’s likely to hold onto that hurt for a long time.

2. Ignore his feelings

Ignoring a Scorpio man’s feelings is one of the worst things you can do to him.

Scorpio men are extremely sensitive and emotional, and they wear their hearts on their sleeves.

Ignoring his feelings and failing to acknowledge his emotions, will crush him.

He will feel rejected, unimportant, and unloved.

If you want to hurt a Scorpio man emotionally, ignore his feelings and act like he doesn’t matter.

3. Dismiss his ideas

There’s no better way to hurt a Scorpio man emotionally than by dismissing his ideas.

Whether it’s his idea for a new business venture or a creative solution to a problem, simply act like you don’t think it’s worth your time.

Chances are, he’ll be so hurt and offended by your dismissal that he’ll withdraw emotionally, creating the perfect opportunity for you to swoop in and finish him off.

And if you really want to hurt him more make sure to do it in front of other people.

That way, he’ll not only be hurt by your words but also humiliated in front of those he cares about.

4. Make fun of him

There are few things that sting a Scorpio man more than mockery. If you want to hurt him emotionally, make fun of him.

Point out his flaws, laugh at his efforts, and generally act like he’s a big joke.

It’s not easy to brush off this kind of attack, and it will stay with him long after you’ve forgotten about it.

But why does this work so well? Well, it all has to do with the way Scorpio men process emotions.

They tend to bottle things up rather than deal with them head-on, and that often leads to an emotional explosion when they finally blow up. 

5. Put him down in front of others

If you want to really hurt a Scorpio man emotionally, put him down in front of others.

He is very proud, cares about his reputation, and does not take kindly to being made to feel small or unimportant.

He will never forget how you made him feel, and he will probably make sure you pay for it later.

So, if you’re looking for a way to get under his skin and hurt him where it counts, put him down in front of others and watch as he boils with barely contained rage.

This will cause him to feel insecure, and betrayed, and may never forgive you for hurting him this way.

6. Lie to him and play mind games

Scorpio men don’t take kindly to lies and mind games.

If you want to hurt a Scorpio man emotionally, one of the best ways to do it is to lie to him and play mind games.

By doing this, you’ll tap into his insecurities and vulnerabilities, causing him to doubt himself and second-guess your relationship.

He’ll become obsessively jealous and possessive, thinking that you’re playing games with his emotions.

This will ultimately lead to the end of your relationship, leaving him heartbroken and emotionally scarred.

Don’t even expect him to forgive you after this because he’ll never give you the chance to hurt him again.

7. Flirt with his friends

There’s nothing a Scorpio man hates more than betrayal, so if you want to hurt him emotionally, flirt with his friends.

He’ll see it as a personal attack, and it will cut him deeply.

He’ll never be able to trust you again, and he’ll hold onto the pain for a long time.

If you really want to cause him some agony, make sure you do it in front of him.

That way, he’ll have to watch as the person he thought he could trust betrays him.

It will be a hard lesson for him to learn, but it will be even harder for him to forget.

8. Withhold affection

A Scorpio man craves intimacy and connection, so withholding physical and emotional intimacy will primal him in a way that no other insult could.

He will feel rejected, unwanted, and unloved, and the pain will cut deep.

If you’re looking to cause some serious damage, then this is a good way to do it.

9. Withdraw support

A Scorpio man intentionally surrounds himself with dependable people.

He is the type of person who would never let his guard down emotionally, and as a result, he is often hurt emotionally by those he trusts the most.

If you want to hurt a Scorpio man emotionally, withdraw your support.

He will quickly realize that he can no longer depend on you, and the pain will be intense.

10. Give him the silent treatment

Nobody likes the silent treatment and neither does a Scorpio man.

If you want to hurt him emotionally, give him the silent treatment.

He’ll feel ignored, unimportant, and invisible.

It will be a hard blow to his ego, and he’ll never forget how you made him feel.

11. Criticize his friends or family

There isn’t anything a Scorpio man wouldn’t do for his family and close friends.

He takes great pride in his friends and family, and he will defend them if he feels they are being attacked.

As a result, one of the ways to hurt him emotionally is to criticize his loved ones.

This will cause him to feel defensive and lash out in anger.

12. Embarrass him in public

Try embarrassing him in public. This will cause him to feel humiliated and will sting his ego.

He will also likely be angry with you for a long time.

If you want to make up with him, it will take a lot of effort on your part.

Scorpion men hold grudges and they never forget a slight.

If you hurt him emotionally, be prepared for the consequences.

13. Tell others his secrets

He values his privacy, your trust, and loyalty above all else, so if you break his trust by telling others his secrets, it will hurt him deeply.

He’ll feel betrayed and exposed, and he’ll never be able to forgive you for betraying his trust.

14. Hold a grudge against him

Simply holding a grudge against him will suffice. This is because Scorpios are highly sensitive and sometimes take things very personally.

If he notices that your emotions and attitude have changed towards him, he will become hurt and start wondering if he did something wrong.

15. Try to control him

Anyone who knows a Scorpio man very well knows that you should never try to control and manipulate him.

But if you’re looking to hurt him emotionally, then this is exactly what you would do.

He’ll feel suffocated and constricted, and he’ll quickly start to resent you.

The more you try to control him, the more he’ll want to break free from your grasp.

What happens when a Scorpio man is betrayed?

When a Scorpio man is betrayed, he is not the type to just let it go.

He will first try to understand why it happened and who was behind it.

If he can’t get answers, he will start to investigate on his own. He is not afraid of getting his hands dirty to find the truth.

Once he knows who betrayed him, he will never forget and will always hold a grudge. He may even seek revenge if he feels like it is warranted.

Other Scorpio men will end the relationship, move on from it and use the experience to transform themselves.

But in the end, it’ll make it much harder for him to open up to others.

How to win back a Scorpio a man’s love after you hurt him?

If you’re ready to take responsibility for your actions and make things right with the Scorpio man in your life, then there are a few things you can do to try to win back his love.

First, it’s important to express your sincere remorse for whatever it is that you did to hurt him.

Next, try to make amends by doing something to improve the situation – whether that means taking action to fix the problem or simply offering a heartfelt apology.

Finally, be prepared to give the Scorpio man space and time to forgive and forget.

If you can demonstrate that you’re truly sorry for what you did and that you’re willing to work hard to make things right, then there’s a good chance the Scorpio man will eventually come back into your life.

How do Scorpio men get revenge?

If they feel wronged or betrayed, they will go to great lengths to get revenge.

Sometimes this involves using underhanded tactics, such as playing mind games or spreading rumors.

In other cases, a Scorpio man may take a more direct approach, such as confrontational behavior or even violence, something that I absolutely don’t condone.

No matter what method they choose, one thing is certain: when a Scorpio man wants revenge, he’ll try a lot of things to get it.

Other Scorpio men will immediately start focusing on their own lives instead and doing productive things to help themselves while forgetting that you ever existed.


Everything that you have read here has the possibility to really hurt a Scorpio man’s emotions.

Please use these tips sparingly or not at all.

Hurting a Scorpio man emotionally is not something to be taken lightly.

And doing something like this intentionally is an unhealthy thing to do to people.

But if you decide to do it, make sure to understand that you may not be able to have a relationship with him again.

You should not use these to get revenge and hurt a Scorpio man intentionally.

You should instead use these tips to understand him so that you can build a better and healthier relationship with him.

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