Scorpio men are no stranger to lying. In fact, some probably do it quite often.
And while there are many reasons why people lie, Scorpio men usually lie for one of two reasons: to gain power or to avoid pain.
Let’s take a closer look at each of these reasons. When they lie to gain power, they’re usually trying to manipulate the situation or the person they’re lying to.
They want to be in control, and they’ll do whatever it takes to get there.
On the other hand, when they lie to avoid pain, they’re usually trying to protect themselves from hurt or rejection.
They don’t want to face the truth because it’s too painful, so they’ll lie instead.
But what does all of this even means? Do Scorpios even agree that they lie?
Here is a survey, where I asked 71 Scorpios about their opinions on Scorpio men lying and what they said.
So, how can you tell if a Scorpio man is lying? Here are some of the signs to look out for:
27 Signs a Scorpio man might be lying
1. He avoids making eye contact or makes too much of it
When a Scorpio man is lying, he usually avoids eye contact.
But a Scorpio man can also take it up a notch because he knows how to manipulate you.
He’ll actually make more eye contact when he’s lying. He wants you to believe him, so he’ll look you right in the eye.
This is probably because he understands that by not making eye contact you might find him out.
2. He gets angry and defensive when you ask him questions
If you try to press him for answers, he’ll likely get angry and defensive.
This is a major sign that he’s hiding something from you.
3. He switches topics or changes the subject abruptly
This is a common tactic when someone is trying to avoid answering a question they don’t want to.
If you ask a Scorpio man a question and he suddenly changes the topic, it’s probably because he’s hiding something from you.
4. He gets fidgety or nervous
A telltale sign that a Scorpio man is lying is if he starts to get fidgety or nervous.
If you notice him playing with his hands or feet, or if he can’t seem to sit still, then there’s a good chance he’s not telling the truth.
5. He gives you vague answers
He’s not a Scorpio man if he isn’t vague. He will never give you a clear answer because he doesn’t want to be pinned down.
If you ask him what he’s thinking, he’ll just say “I don’t know.” It’s not that he doesn’t know, it’s that he doesn’t want to tell you.
He wants to keep his options open and he doesn’t want to give you any ammunition that you can use against him.
6. He stalls or delays in responding to your texts or calls
When a Scorpio man is interested in you, he will respond to your texts and calls almost immediately.
But if he starts to stall or delay, it’s a sign that he’s not interested anymore and may be hiding or lying to you about something.
7. He tries to make you feel guilty
If a Scorpio man is trying to make you feel guilty, it’s likely because he’s hiding something.
He knows that if he can make you feel guilty, you’ll be less likely to suspect him of lying.
This is a manipulative tactic that should be avoided at all costs.
8. He projects his own faults onto you
One of the most common signs that a Scorpio man is lying is when he starts projecting his own faults and insecurities onto you.
If he’s feeling guilty about something, he may try to make you feel guilty too.
This is his way of deflecting responsibility and making himself feel better.
9. He gaslights you or tries to make you doubt yourself
When a Scorpio man starts lying to you, he will try to gaslight you or make you doubt yourself.
He wants you to question your own memory, perception, and sanity.
Scorpio men are master manipulators, and they will often use gaslighting as a way to control and dominate you.
If you start to feel like you’re going crazy, it’s probably because a Scorpio man is lying to you.
10. He is evasive or withholds information
When you try to get a straight answer out of him and he gets all shifty, it could be a sign he’s hiding something.
He might start giving you vague answers or change the subject entirely.
If you feel like he’s holding back, there’s a good chance he is.
11. He changes his story a lot
One minute he says he was at the library and the next he says he was at his friend’s house.
It’s hard to keep up with him and you start to wonder if he’s telling the truth.
12. You catch him in lies or inconsistencies more often than you’d like
It’s not that he’s a bad liar or he may just be, and you have a way of catching him in his web.
But more often than not, when a Scorpio man is lying to you, it’s because he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
Or he’s trying to lead you on.
13. He refuses to answer direct questions
This is a huge sign that something isn’t right.
If you’re asking your partner straightforward questions and they avoid giving you a direct answer, it’s likely because they’re hiding something.
14. He uses sarcasm or mockery as a defense mechanism
One of the most common signs that a Scorpio man is lying is his use of sarcasm or mockery.
This is usually a defense mechanism that he employs when he feels threatened or exposed.
If you notice that your Scorpio man is being particularly sarcastic or mocking, it may be a sign that he’s feeling insecure about something and is trying to cover it up with humor.
Or planning to hide something that he’s doing behind your back.
15. He withholds affection as punishment
The Scorpio man is a master at manipulation and can be very vindictive if he feels wronged.
If you’ve done something to upset him, like asking too many questions about something. he may withhold affection as a way to punish you.
He may give you the silent treatment or make snide comments to try to make you feel guilty.
This is another one of the tactics he uses when he doesn’t want to face a particular situation.
16. He gives you the silent treatment
A Scorpio man will suddenly start giving you the silent treatment when he’s lying to you.
This can be really confusing and frustrating because you’ll have no idea what you did wrong.
And that’s exactly how he wants you to feel.
Because you’ll be occupied thinking about what you did so it distracts you from dealing with his lies.
And pointing them out to him.
17. He guilts trips you
If a Scorpio man is lying to you, he will guilt trip you into believing that it’s your fault.
He will make you feel guilty for not trusting him or for doubting him.
He will make you feel like you’re the one who is wrong.
18. He plays the victim
One of the most common signs that a Scorpio man is lying is when he tries to play the victim.
He will make up stories about how someone hurt him in order to make you feel sorry for him.
He does this because he knows that you will be more likely to believe him if you feel sorry for him.
He can be a master manipulator when he wants to have his own way.
19. He becomes overly critical or judgmental
When a Scorpio man is lying to you he’ll probably become overly critical or judgmental towards you.
This is usually a sign that he’s feeling guilty about something and is trying to make himself feel better by putting you down.
And he uses this as a distraction to make you feel like you’re at fault for everything bad in the relationship.
20. He withdraws from you emotionally
You may notice that when you’re talking to him, he seems distant and preoccupied.
He doesn’t seem as interested in what you have to say and he doesn’t share as much about himself.
This is a big red flag that he could be lying to you.
21. He gets cold or distant
When a Scorpio man starts lying, he usually gets cold or distant. This is because he doesn’t want to get caught in his lie.
He will try to avoid you as much as possible and if you confront him about his lie, he will probably deny it.
Until you have proof to show him.
22. He is preoccupied or distracted
You might notice that your Scorpio man is more preoccupied or distracted than usual.
This could be a sign that he is lying to you and is trying to keep his story straight in his head.
He may also be acting more nervous than usual, as he is aware that he is not being truthful.
If you suspect that your Scorpio man is lying, confront him about it and see how he reacts.
If he becomes defensive or evasive, it is likely that he is hiding something from you.
23. He seems disconnected from his emotions
One of the biggest giveaways that a Scorpio man is lying is when he seems emotionally disconnected.
If he’s usually a passionate and intense guy, but suddenly seems cold and distant, it’s a sign that something is off.
He’s probably trying to keep himself together so he doesn’t give anything away, but it could be a tell-tale sign that he’s not being truthful.
24. His body language is closed off or resistant
When a Scorpio man starts lying to you his body language sometimes changes.
If he’s usually an open and friendly person, and he starts crossing his arms or legs when you’re talking, it’s a sign that he’s being defensive.
This is because he might be lying or hiding something.
25. He seems uncomfortable or ill at ease
If he’s usually the life of the party and suddenly seems tense or nervous around you, something might definitely be up.
He may be trying to act casual, but if his body language is saying otherwise, he could be hiding something from you.
Interpreting a Scorpio man’s body language can be tricky, but if you’re paying close attention, you could probably see when he’s not being honest with you.
26. He’s always testing you
A Scorpio man will always test you, to see how much you can take, and how far you’re willing to go for him.
He’s always testing your limits because he knows that he can get away with anything.
He’ll sometimes use this to manipulate you and see if he can lie to you and how you respond to his lies.
This lets him understand if you’ve figured out his lies or if he’s still fooling you.
27. You feel like you’re walking on eggshells around him
When a Scorpio man starts to lie to you, he’ll play alot of mind games with you, that makes you feel like you’re the problem, when really, he’s the one that’s lying.
You’ll start to feel like you’re walking on eggshells around him, and you’ll never really know what mood he’s going to be in.
Why might a Scorpio man lie to you?
Scorpio men are known for being mysterious, passionate, and intense.
They can also be quite guarded, making it difficult to get to know them on a deep level.
One reason why a Scorpio man may lie to you is because he’s afraid of being hurt. If he’s been burned in the past, he may be hesitant to let his guard down again.
He may also lie to protect himself from being rejected or hurt.
Another reason why a Scorpio man may lie is because he wants to control the situation.
He may feel like he needs to be in charge in order to feel secure. If he’s feeling insecure, he may lie in order to gain a sense of power or control over the situation.
A Scorpio man will also lie to you because he’s trying to string you along.
Maybe he likes you but he doesn’t want to be tied down to one person, so he’ll lie to maintain multiple relationships.
Lastly, a Scorpio man may lie to you because he’s simply not ready to tell you the truth.
He may need more time to process his feelings or figure out what he wants.
All the reasons why a Scorpio man might lie to you are:
- Afraid of being hurt
- To avoid rejection
- To control a situation
- He wants to string you along
- Not ready to tell the truth
Summary
Scorpio men value their close relationships, so if a Scorpio man is lying to you it’s likely that he doesn’t respect you or value the relationship you both have.
Scorpio men have different motivations for lying- some do it to avoid hurting someone’s feelings, while others might lie in order to get what they want.
No matter the reason, lying is always a choice and it’s important to be aware of when you’re being lied to.
One way to tell if a Scorpio man is lying is by his body language.
If he’s giving you shifty eyes or trying to change the subject, there’s a good chance he’s not telling you the truth.
If you think your Scorpio man might be lying to you, there are a few things you can do:
Confront him about it directly, look for inconsistencies in his story, or try to get to the bottom of why he’s lying in the first place.
A Scorpio man can be very stubborn in his ways and you must set boundaries with him and challenge him to change his ways for the betterment of your relationship.
Lying is never a good foundation for a relationship, so if your Scorpio man can’t be honest with you, it might be time to move on from him.
