17 Things to know about a friends with benefits relationship with a Scorpio man

A friends with benefits relationship with a Scorpio man is a situation that can be very tricky.

Are you with a Scorpio man and unsure where your relationship stands?

Do you have a relationship that is purely physical or maybe you’re wondering if your relationship is only friends with benefits for him?

Are you in a friends with benefits relationship with a Scorpio man and hoping for more?

Scorpios are highly sensual and can be very manipulative, so it’s likely that if a Scorpio man is having his way without committing to you he might remain that way.

Let’s look at what it means to have a friends with benefits relationship with a Scorpio man.

Scorpio man friends with benefits survey

I conducted a survey where I asked 300 Scorpios if they would become serious with someone whom they consider to be friends with benefits.

Take a look to see what they said.

From the numbers above you see that 76% of them say that they would eventually have a serious relationship with someone, they had a friends with benefits relationship with.

And 14% said that they wouldn’t have any type of serious relationship.

While there is a possibility of developing a more serious relationship with a Scorpio man with whom you have a friends with benefits relationship, you should be realistic with your expectations.

This means that you should understand the type of relationship that you’re getting into so that you don’t allow yourself to get hurt.

Expect that this type of relationship might not change and you may remain friends with benefits but be open-minded that if he is willing to settle down and commit that you might as well.

Below I will tell you some of the things or thinking to expect when you’re in a friends with benefits relationship with a Scorpio man.

17 Things to know about Scorpio man friends with benefits

1. There is no commitment

This means that a Scorpio man will not be looking for anything serious and you should not expect him to want to pursue a relationship.

He is happy with things the way they are and does not want anything to change.

2. You will always come second

Scorpio men are very independent and do not like to be tied down.

This means that if you are hoping to turn your friends with benefits into something more, you will likely be disappointed.

He is not looking for anything serious and is happy with the way things are.

3. There are no emotional ties

When it comes to friends with benefits, the Scorpio man is all about keeping things strictly physical.

He doesn’t want any emotional ties or strings attached.

This can be a good thing if you’re not looking for anything serious either.

You can just enjoy each other’s company and have some fun without any drama.

However, if you’re hoping for something more from this relationship, you’ll likely be disappointed.

The Scorpio man is very set in his ways and isn’t looking to change anytime soon.

4. It’s all physical with the Scorpio man

There’s no denying that the physical connection is important to a Scorpio man.

He’s incredibly sensual, and he’ll be drawn to a woman who can match his intensity.

This friends with benefits situation with your Scorpio is all physical.

If you’re looking for something more than just a physical relationship, you may be disappointed.

5. He probably doesn’t respect you

If you’re friends with benefits with a Scorpio man, it’s likely that he probably doesn’t respect you very much.

He probably sees you as someone who is easy to take advantage of and isn’t really interested in a committed relationship.

If you’re looking for something more than just a casual fling, you’re probably better off looking elsewhere.

A Scorpio man will only give himself fully to someone who knows and fights for their worth.

And is very confident about it. If you let him have his way with you all the time and don’t stand up for yourself, he won’t respect you.

And your relationship will remain friends with benefits, on his terms.

6. He probably doesn’t respect you

This is the most important thing to remember when you’re friends with benefits with a Scorpio man.

He will probably never, ever respect you if you’re just a friend with benefits.

He doesn’t see you as anything more than that, and he never will.

So if you’re looking for something more from him, you’re going to be disappointed.

And what I mean by respect is the kind that you are looking for is unlikely in this situation.

7. He probably doesn’t value you

Scorpio men are very intense and passionate people.

When they’re interested in someone, they go all in 100%.

However, when they’re not interested in someone, they couldn’t care less.

If you’re just a friend with benefits to a Scorpio man, he probably doesn’t value you very much.

He’s probably using you for body and nothing more.

8. He has no feelings for you

Scorpio men are not the type to develop feelings for someone they’re just casually seeing.

If he’s only interested in being your friend with benefits, it’s because he doesn’t want anything more serious.

He’s not looking for a relationship and he’s not interested in getting to know you on a deeper level.

You’re just a means to an end for him and nothing more.

9. Don’t call him for favors, he doesn’t care

If you’re only friends with benefits with a Scorpio man he is only around for one thing.

He doesn’t want you calling for any other favors because that would just be a waste of his time.

And frankly, he probably doesn’t really care and doesn’t have high standards for you either.

You should know this about him so that you’re not surprised when he doesn’t answer your calls or texts outside of getting physical.

Which is all he cares about in this situation.

10. He doesn’t do anything for free

If you want to be friends with benefits with a Scorpio man, then you need to be prepared to give something back.

He won’t do anything for free, and he’ll always want something in return.

Whether it’s being physical, money, or power, he’ll always want something from you.

But mostly the physical part in this situation.

11. He is selfish

Scorpio men are selfish by nature. They want what they want and they usually get it.

If you’re looking for a friend with benefits who is going to be generous with his time and attention, you might want to look elsewhere.

The type of relationship that you two have, he’ll only call you when he needs something.

Don’t believe that he really cares about you.

He’ll become distant for a few days and only reach out when he needs something from you.

12. He’s not relationship material

There’s a reason why the Scorpio man is usually single.

He’s not relationship material.

He’s too independent and he doesn’t want to be tied down.

He likes his freedom and he’s not ready to give that up for anyone.

If your relationship is friends with benefits with him, then you’re right where he wants you.

And you shouldn’t be chasing a man that doesn’t value you more than he does.

13. You’re just a conquest to him

If you’re wondering why your Scorpio man is suddenly acting distant, it’s because he’s lost interest in you.

To a Scorpio man, you were just conquest and nothing more.

He’s not interested in anything serious with you, so don’t expect him to stick around for long.

Or maybe he’ll reach out next time he needs to be physical with you again.

14. He’s just using you

Don’t fool yourself into thinking that a Scorpio man friends with benefits is anything more than just that, a friend who happens to benefit from your company and, possibly, your body.

He’s not interested in anything more than that, so don’t get your hopes up.

He’s just not looking for anything serious.

He might enjoy your company and even care for you a little, but that doesn’t mean he wants anything more than a physical relationship.

15. You’re not special to him

Just because he’s your friend with benefits, doesn’t mean you’re special to him.

In fact, you’re probably just one of many.

He’s a social guy and he loves meeting new people, so don’t think you’re the only one.

If you want to be special to him, you need to be more than just a friend with benefits.

You need to be his girlfriend. He needs to commit to you.

And he’s probably too afraid to do that anyway.

16. Don’t fall for him

Don’t fall for the Scorpio man’s charms unless you want to be burned.

He’s a hot commodity and he knows it.

His confidence is attractive, but it can also be dangerous.

The Scorpio man in this situation doesn’t do commitment, so if you’re looking for something serious, move on.

17. He’s not worth your time or emotions

There’s nothing worse than getting emotionally attached to a guy who’s only interested in you for one thing.

And that one thing isn’t your personality or your sense of humor. It’s physical.

So if you’re looking for a friends with benefits situation with a Scorpio man, make sure you’re on the same page.

Otherwise, you’re going to get hurt.

Is your Scorpio man relationship friends with benefits?

If you’re not sure where you stand with your Scorpio man, here are some things to look out for that could indicate that your relationship is purely physical:

  • You’re not introduced to his friends or family
  • You never go on dates
  • You don’t have any mutual friends
  • You don’t have any shared interests
  • You never talk about your feelings
  • You never talk about the future
  • You’re always the one who initiates contact
  • He’s always busy when you want to hang out
  • You only see each other when you’re hooking up
  • You never spend the night
  • He doesn’t stay over after you get physical
  • You have no communication when you’re not together
  • The only time he texts you is to hook up
  • He doesn’t make any effort to get to know you
  • You have no idea what his favorite anything is
  • All he wants to do is hook up
  • You feel like you’re being used for your body

If most of these things sound familiar, then it’s likely that your relationship with the Scorpio man is purely friends with benefits.

If that’s what you’re looking for, then there’s no harm in continuing things as is.

But if you’re hoping for something more, you might want to move on.

There are plenty of fish in the sea, and there’s no reason to settle for something that isn’t what you want.

How to have more than friends with benefits with a Scorpio man?

Maybe the Scorpio man is really sweet and you both have a great connection.

So you don’t want to give up the relationship and you’d like to get something more serious.

It is possible to have a committed relationship in this situation.

The survey I did is proof that this can happen so let’s look at some of the things you could do to get a Scorpio man to become more than just friends with benefits.

  • Stop being available all the time
  • Make him work for your attention
  • Don’t always say yes to his advances
  • Play hard to get, he loves a challenge
  • Use your wit on him and let him chase you
  • Tease him a lot with your sensuality, he’ll love it
  • Communicate your feelings
  • Have a life outside of him
  • Make sure you’re on the same page
  • Don’t be afraid to walk away

The Scorpio man loves a challenge and if he keeps coming back to you it’s because you’re doing something he loves.

Use this to your advantage and make him work for you.

Don’t make everything so easy for him, let him chase you.

Use your wit, tease him, and use other things he likes about you to get him in the direction where you want him to be.


A Scorpio man is a great friend and an even better lover. But if you’re not careful, he can also be a great heartbreaker.

If you want to have a friends with benefits relationship with a Scorpio man, that’s fine.

But if you’re hoping for something more, you need to make sure he’s on the same page.

Otherwise, you might get hurt if you go into the relationship expecting more than he is willing to commit to.

The Scorpio man loves a challenge. So if you want to get more than friends with benefits from him, make him work for it.

And if he turns down the challenge then great for you, he was probably not really into you as much as he said he did.

If that’s the case I hope you sort of knew this and saved yourself a heartbreak.

If you want to get some advice about what you should do in your situation right now, have a live one-on-one session with an astrologer who can assist you better and give you the advice you need.

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